Hello Peoples,

I just want to preface this blog by stating  that I am not a psychologist…..however I do play one on television.  Stepping into the world of psychology can initially be a frightening and daunting one, but you are more familiar with this subject than you might realize.  How many times have you found it necessary to appease or placate your boss, spouse, or friend simply to save the relationship?  We all do it at one time or another, and some more so than others.  Looking back, I am certain that you can think of many other types of psychological care taking you have had to employ over the years.

It is in the way that we approach our relationships and even ourselves….especially ourselves, that we may wish to view our very nature as a human being.  Some of us may be passive when confronting or being confronted, while others are aggressive in this area.  Then there are those that simply refuse to participate at all unless absolutely cornered, and then you better watch out people!  Still, how do we find what our psychological profile is, and who says so?

Well, there are a number of “experts” in this field of cognitive misbehavior, and they have plenty to say about it.  But where to start?  Maybe you fall into a personality disorder, or a mood disorder to name two of many.  Or maybe the disorder you have been diagnosed with has created a supplemental disorder due to the side affects of the medication prescribed for the initial disorder.  It becomes quite complex if you allow it to, but it does not have to be this way.

Your psychological profile is one of a continual adjustment to your life’s circumstances.  Losing your job or receiving a decrease in salary is sure to disrupt one’s life, and how you see it.  Your reaction to this difficult life event started many, many years ago when you were just an infant.  The exposure to mom and dad’s arguments and how they were handled was your first template in reactionary expression.  However, life also has its lighter and happier moments, and mom and dad set the standard for you in these matters as well.

Still, where does one look to find the beginnings of your psychological profile (mom and dad)?  For starters simply look to the signs and rulers of your fourth and tenth houses in your astrological chart.  In astrological parlance it is called the parental axis.  Some Astrologers believe the fourth house to represent mother, and the tenth house to represent father.  Then there are those that believe it to be just the opposite (4th dad, 10th mom), and still others believe it to be a combination of the two.

So, now that you have been parents for some time, and even more time sensitive, you are now grandparents, wouldn’t you love to see what your children and grandchildren have inherited down the line?  Perhaps what has been perpetuated for so many years (adjustment, and or personality disorders) in the familial past is on the verge of a major change.  For good or bad life is all about potential, and nothing is set in stone.  Though we can change our inherited value systems, the odds are not good that we will change them.  Yet, it is in knowing that we can finally affect change.

Contact Curtis Williams to make an appointment for your Psychological Profile.

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Curtis Williams  MA, A.P. D., CRMT